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This is one of my very personal favorites.
What it is: A sensual variation of girl-on-top, where her hips do the dirty talking.
How to do it: Have him lie flat on his back. Straddle him and slide your legs out until your feet are planted on either side of his body at the same level as his shoulders/torso, with your knees slightly bent. Bring back your arms to grip onto his shins or thighs, (or the floor, depending on where you will get the most leverage). Now the fun part: swivel your hips on top of him in lazy semicircles at first (by slightly bending and then extending your legs), building it up to making large infinity symbols (figure-eights) back and forth, changing direction each time.
Why it’s hot: The infinity-shape motion of your hips changes the sensation of typical in-and-out movement, keeping things fresh. Since she gets to control the depth, speed and motion, she can stimulate both of her G-spots as she pleases. Plus you get to watch and feel her hips grinding on you like an ultra-naughty lap dance.
How to kink it up:
For him: instead of leaving your arms relaxed behind your head or at the sides, you can grab onto her calves or ankles. DO reach in front of her and rub her hot spot while she’s busy circling her hips around– but make sure you move WITH her (rather than vice versa) so she is still the one controlling the motion. You can also bring up your hips a bit by putting a pillow under your butt (or just lifting your pelvis up and down in rhythm with her), which allows for deeper penetration.
For her: Instead of gripping on to his thighs, knees or shins for leverage, bring his body closer to yours by sliding your hands down and grabbing the backs of his thighs and/or derrière, digging in your nails or just spreading his cheeks. This is also good for pulling on his package. You can also try making a tight ring with your thumb and forefinger(s) around his shaft, which you should move in sync with your hips (the feel of different tightness around him is über hot!).
Next week: The Tawdry Tarantula
Last week: The V-Sit Pump
Want to share a sexy position with us? Let me know! Or, if you have a question about sex or dating? Ask Lexi is coming soon, and will feature a new topic each week. Send your queries to: asklexi@lexisylver.com
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